Feeling stuck in the same patterns,
disconnected from your true essence?
Tired of settling for less?
Had it with dead end relationships?
Avoiding touching, kissing or cuddling?
Missing enjoyment and pleasure in your lovemaking?
Welcome, my name is Wildflower. I can help you reclaim your true spark - whether that's growing a business, attracting true love or rekindling passion. Inspired by my own inner child healing journey and repair of attachment injury, I am dedicated to supporting others to reclaim authenticity, sensuality and true intimacy.
I grew up with a predominant disorganized/avoidant attachment adaptation; I was a numbers girl, ruled by left brain logic. I followed high school with University where I completed a degree in Actuarial Science (stats and math). I worked in insurance and investments. After a divorce in my 30's I began a path of self exploration and committed to doing what I loved. I sold my house, packed a van and drove across Canada (BC to NS) to return to school, this time to study art. Nurturing my right brain, my world cracked open; I discovered depths to myself that I had previously been completely disconnected from. I committed to repairing repressed wounds from early childhood; my world began to sprout. I didn't know it at the time but I was earning secure attachment.
I became a certified yoga teacher. I returned to my love of working with children (I was the baby sitting queen of the neighbourhood in my teens). I took the name Wildflower. In my late 40's I hit the books again to become an Early Childhood Educator. I discovered tapping and through my new career of working with little ones, I started learning about attachment. Over the years, sprouts have grown into blossoms that bloom again and again and again.
We are wired to connect; attachment is a biological imperative. When a secure connection is not available, our systems adapt brilliantly but our authenticity is compromised. Secure connection fosters authenticity. My journey has been all about finding my true essence and expressing myself authentically in the world.
I'm all about attachment. I grow my client base through connecting securely one-to-one and in small groups. I still like numbers but my practice is about quality and depth; I work with a small client base who are curious to explore their own journeys and courageous to commit to the ongoing process of unveiling their true essence, their authentic expression of self in the world.
I'm happy to apply all I've learned to hold space for others reclaiming their true spark. Check out my offerings for ways to connect and if you want to receive an occasional email update from me, let me know here.
I bring attuned presence, openness and a profound respect for safety to my work. I provide private sessions online as well as semi-private online groups. Release what’s holding you back so you can experience the joy, pleasure and intimacy of self love and lasting romantic relationship.
I currently have a waitlist for new clients but feel free to book an introductory consult with me to chat about your needs and what would best support you.
I am an Attachment Specialist and EFT Relationship Coach.
I hold certificates in:
Advanced EFT (I'm also an Approved EFTi Mentor)
Picture Tapping Technique
TRE: Tension Release Exercises (Neurogenic Tremoring)
Kripalu (Compassion) Yoga
Infant Development
Infant Mental Health
Attachment-Informed Art Therapy
Infant Massage
Early Childhood Education
As well I have completed all four training modules of DARe, Dynamic Attachment Repatterning experience, which is somatic experiencing through the lens of attachment. I am happy to be part of the DARe Training Assistants Team.
As relationship patterns are established early in life, my work is well informed by my education and experience as an Infant Development Consultant.
Tapping is a simple self-help tool that brings relaxation and relief around emotional issues that keep you stuck and hold you back in life.
By gently tapping on acupuncture points while being aware of thoughts and feelings that you'd like to change, tapping creates a greater capacity to be with what is. As a result, negative patterns can transform, bringing clarity, comfort and ease to life's challenges.
Scribble Tapping combines elements of somatic experiencing and attachment-focused tapping with making scribbles for gentle but deep access to implicit experiences that are beyond conscious awareness. Resolution can happen quite simply with no thinking, analyzing or interpreting necessary.
Scribble Tapping evolved from my experience with Picture Tapping and DARe. It's a great tool for working through intergenerational issues, attachment injury and adverse experiences from the early years, including in utero and birth.
TRE, Tension Release Exercises, bring balance to the body by activating a natural reflexive mechanism of tremoring or pulsation in the body. These neurogenic tremors relax the nervous system, release deeply held tensions and restore balance.
TRE has been a profound practice in deepening my intimacy with self and expanding my capacity for pleasure.
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